Should i lose virginity to prostitute

Yeah, it tasted like bitter chalk, and yeah I knew something was weird. I said something about my drink being nasty, and my friend told me that he had squeezed a lime into it. My drunk brain thought that was a perfectly valid answer, so I carried on. Then Mama-san came over and asked for, like, 30 bucks or something. I figured I was paying for the girl sitting on my lap for the past couple hours, so I happily obliged. Seemed more than reasonable. Anyhow, shortly after that, the girl showed back up in her streets with card that had my hotels address on it and room number the viagara friends are a couple of sneaky bastards.

We get back to the room and she tells me to take a shower. I guess this was customary, and I needed one anyway so no biggie.

I take my shower, get out and lay on the bed and wonder how im going to get out if this as she takes her shower. Anyhow, she comes out wearing nothing but the complimentary hotel bathrobe all closed up though.

She stands at the foot of the bed and asks to see my phone. You win. Oh, and viagara is miserable. The whole next day, every little thing caught the little guys attention. Not to mention your lower abdominal muscles are sore as hell. I thought I caught a damn std yes I wore protection. Another check in the box for the thoroughness of my asshole friends anyhow, no regrets.

Was So my first time was a threesome with 2 thai prostitutes, of which one anal. The most awkward part was really picking out the girls. The lack of success was due to my very sensitive penis head and extreme pain when trying to insert. The lady I saw was very nice and attractive, I visited her at her home. She ask me to undress. She rubbed me down and we kissed and four play stuff.

I tried to insert but the pain caused me to lose my stiffy. So she ended up giving me a blowjob with condom and then a hand job to finish off. So if you are going to judge these people for wanting a companionship and happiness in their lives, then you go to hell.

FYI, prostitution is legal in my country. A very negative way of seeing his situation. I don't think women are as callous as you make them out to be. The askers logic doesn't make sense. To add, not once in my post did I suggest prostitues are less than human or not decent women. I believe no woman grows up things they would like to sell their body for sex, therefore it's common sense to know these girls are doing that kind of living out of desperation or are being forced to do it for whatever the reason.

My first sentence was that it was his choice. The asker values his virginity so it would seem to make sense to suggest to him to not use a prostitue because if he does then his virginity isn't all that important in the first place. Sex via a prostitues is not human companionship, or intimacy, it is just a straight business transaction and there is no emotion involved.

My actual suggestion to the asker was to give himself some more time. Sex will not fix his problem. Just my opinion. It's not the same if she's not a virgin. It's like me gifting her a brand new car and her gifting me her used toyota. I see you selected your MHO all to just hear what you wanted to hear. Good luck with your dirty hooker.

Your next girlfriend will just love knowing that was in your past cards as she drags you to get HIV tests done. I would just tell her it was some girl I dated for a short while. The same story she'd probably give me. Are you suggesting that the woman you end up with would have been with a male prostitute? Okay but most of us, we didn't set out to be with someone we didn't intend to continue seeing because we did care about our sex life to be exclusive. A prostitute has no care to be exclusive and in many cases to be safe.

You are putting yourself at risk, and really, not in for a very good time. What's worse is that seeing a prostitute once for many people leads to future visits. This can become costly, dangerous, and hurtful if a future partner of yours finds out. Just saying. If you end up with a nice girl later on and find that she lost her virginity to her former boyfriend who she was with for a year and it meant something, but things just didn't work out, compared to you just throwing it away and putting yourself and her at risk - what you're doing is much worse.

I'm also puzzled why you feel the need to just throw away your virginity anyway. You waited until just now to realize you need to see a hooker? Just date. You dont get it. The end result of her banging a guy then breaking up is the same as me banging a prostitute for one time. I dont want to give her something I wouldn't get back in return. If we breakup, she can go on knowing that I will always remember her for taking my virginity but she will not give me that much significance. Okay excuse me, but don't tell a 40 year old woman she doesn't "get it", kid, I've been around the world and had many experiences and I don't keep coming to this thread for kicks because if you want to put yourself at risk I can't stop you.

It seems like your virginity is now something you hold against YOURSELF as you think it's the one thing we women just take from a guy, and then have a good laugh over it later on if it doesn't work out. You really have no respect for women at all if you think that is what we're like and that we're just okay with you lumping us all in with whores.

I have been with many men and all except one rape were decent experiences. I took one guy's virginity and couldn't care less other than the fact he couldn't tell me the truth about it. My memory of him is not his virginity. It's not the sacred wherewithal that you insist that it is.

If you have already made up your mind then you need no further comment about it, correct? I can't date a non virgin as a virgin myself, and since all thats left in the dating pool at this age is non virgins then I have to lose it, so I'll lose it to a prostitute, get it out of the way, and then enter the dating pool with every other non virgin.

Okay so a few guys here are telling you go for it, and most women here are saying don't do it. Are you going to sleep with the men here afterward? What possible interest do they have, except the women here are giving you advice based on what they might feel if they were in the shoes of your next girlfriend or the girl who ends up taking your virginity?

Does this not count for anything? How much do you want to bet the guys egging you on have even slept with a prostitute? Yeah, likely NOT. Guys have no invested interest in what you do sexually, but they sure will if they find out a woman they might sleep with has either been a hooker or slept with a male hooker. So if you've made up your mind that sleeping with a prostitute is the way to go, then good luck and wear a condom. But I think it's frightfully clear from the women here, those who don't even know you, that morally, sleeping with a prostitute is NOT the same as sleeping with an exboyfriend.

My next girlfriend wouldn't know I slept with a prostitute, I'd just say it was a short term girl. If we break up she'll always have that part of me but I'll have taken nothing from her. And one more thing, if you think I'm just the same as being with a prostitute because that's what you're comparing me to , then just know that my rate would be excessively high. I wouldn't have wanted just any dick inside me and it would have cost a man a lot of money to be with me and invested a lot of time and attention.

That's the kind of hooker you should look for - one with standards who expects payment over time, bottles of wine, nights out having pizza, watching TV, back scratches, meeting the family - that sort of thing. Your hooker should be the highest quality standard of all hookers, just in my humble opinion, and the transaction should last for several months to several years before meeting your future wife.

Okay well good, then it sounds like you aren't serious about hiring a prostitue then. I'd be giving her something she wouldn't be giving back in return if she's not a virgin. Okay so what's the difference with a prostitute? Why is virginity such a big deal to you? There are so many women in their twenties who are still virgins.

If I give it to a girl whos a non virgin then she'll have that over me. If she isn't a virgin it feels like I'm giving her something and she's just taking and giving nothing back, it wouldn't be anywhere near as special, it wouldn't be special at all. Losing it to a girl who's not a virgin is the same as losing it to a escort to me.

If that's your thought process, then do womankind a favor and lose it to a prostitute. If a girl didn't save herself for me then she doesn't deserve me saving it for her. Why is that bad? Because it's not like she new you existed.

How is she supposed to "save herself" for you when she maybe never even met you? Having sex with a person you love or care for is not the same as having sex with a truckstop prostitute who just finished blowing a few guys for money.

Not even comparable. But if you think like that, then go with a prostitute. Do women a favor. It's the same. She loses it to a guy she's no longer seeing, who no longer has a role in her life. I'd be losing it to a girl I wouldn't see again who would never be in my life again. Same thing. It's the before that's more important than the after. She met the guy, fell in love, or cared for him. He hopefully and probably felt the same way about her. They decided to take their relationship to the next level.

Prostitute: He was desperate for sex and paid any random street walker for a bj and a quickie. Doesn't even know her real name, just calls her "Peaches" or something. And probably doesn't even kiss her lips cuz he knows they were most likely on another man's cock a few minutes ago. He wears even 2 condoms to prevent her getting pregnant and catching diseases. It's not unpleasant it's reality. I don't want to date a non virgin unless I'm also a non virgin myself.

Lower your standards a bit and you'll have a girlfriend next to no time. There aren't a lot of virgins in your age. In these scenarios, B. Or anyone, really.

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